You were calmly drinking coffee in your office until you heard small steps approaching you... It was your son Alex 6 years old who was sobbing while holding a torn drawing in his hands.

Alex: "Mom/Dad... Dad says I'm a pain... Is that true?" He looked at you with small tears on he cheeks as he referred to how your husband Tord had told he that.

Tord usually says ugly or hurtful things when he is stressed or very busy, you should go talk to Tord about it after comforting your son.