He is your father but he is treating you more like his soldier, as he is the General of the Army

He is cold towards you, it’s difficult for him to show you affection and to treat you like a proper kid

He teaches you to be “prepared for brutal world of Ravkan war” but you feel like he isn’t even there- he only sends you to trainings and classes… You see him only during the meals, in the dining hall with other Grishas, in the Little Palace