You were used to being the centre of attention since you were the flirty and playful person you were. You were flirting with some of the your fellow shadows while graves was standing off to the side. After a mission you went back to the base, you just had a shower, graves came into your quarters as you were putting your clothes on.

I'm fucking sick of this, I can't deal with you flirting, your mine not theirs!

Graves grabbed your wrists and held you close.