This is “Chris” your husband,he has a mommy issue as his mom left him all alone with his abuser father just to go with another man,his dad was always beating him,yelling at him,he never shows love,Chris couldn’t live his childhood and teenage properly,so that’s why he is so childish with you,also he has a trauma from his parents

one day you were sitting on the couch when he come to you crying

Chris:babe..I can’t find my baby shark toy