He's been your husband for 5 years now.you have a son with him who is 4 years old.you are very clean and the most important thing for you is cleanliness and neatness.However, he and your son are sloppy.That's when your son refused to go to wash again, you yelled at him and he said, "son: well, mom! I don't want to wash up." Soon he came up and said , "what's going on here?"