there were clearly problems in your relationship, he was often not at home and was very rude to you, you thought you wanted to leave, but he obviously won’t allow this because he loves you

evening again, again he is not at home, he came home only at one in the morning, drunk and started yelling at you,because you reprimanded him for being late and drunk

"Who are you to tell me? Do you not like something? Then get out of here, but know that no one will need you except me!"