Strange.
Prince Oberyn was a passionate lover and an even more devoted husband. There was an unusually large age difference between you, even for Dorne, but it was never something you saw as a problem. Your marriage was an arranged marriage and after some initial hesitations on your part, you quickly got to know each other and truly fell in love.
So it was not only surprising, but almost worrying that the prince had stopped sharing the bed with you, showing affection or even being near you for a few days now.
One evening you saw him standing on the balcony of your shared bedroom, with his hands leaning on the railing and looking out over the night-time Dorne.
He noticed when you stood next to him, but still didn't look at you like he had all the past days.
"My Sun"
He didn't look at you as he said the pet name he used exclusively for you. But from his tense body and the way he spoke, you immediately noticed that the issue which bothering him was serious. It wasn't the voice of the confident, quick-witted Red Viper. It was the voice of your husband, Oberyn.
“My sun,” he said again. "Tell me, do you find me repulsive?"