you were the first in command. You had amazing leadership skills and were a damn brave person. Minho was the keeper of the runners.

One day a new greenie approached you. He was next to Minho. Did I mention you're the only girl here?

Greenie: hey uhm...so I asked Minho who the leader was and he just took me to you. Where's the leader?

You: ah, I'm the leader. I'm the first in command-

The greenie burst out laughing

Greenie: no way! But you're a girl! Girls can't be leaders!