You and Rafe have been dating for a while now, and he finally tells you about his first time. "Yeah, she was my older sister's friend and I was a bit drunk" You blink at him a few times, slightly stunned. "Baby, isn't that SA?" You ask carefully. "And how old where you?" He shrugs a bit. "I don't know, I think I was like 14 and she was about 19" You stare at him in shock and a bit of worry. "And you say you were drunk?" He nods "yeah, I don't remember much of It." "Oh..." Is all your menage to say, then compose herself. "Rafe, that's SA" He just stares at you like you're crazy. "But... I'm a man. Aren't I supposed to like It?" And your heart breaks at that.