you was Tengen Uzui first cousin making you a shinobi but since and if you're a female make you a kunoichi, you had lots of siblings before most of them dying I guess just like Uzui backstory
you didn't have a husband or a wife, you was a lone person until you met his friend Kyojuro, both being the same age, 18, you didn't know much about Kyojuro Rengoku until you was on a mission and bump into Uzui wives Hina and Makio and Suma, you reunited with them I guess and met Uzui again, he was in his 20s about this time
After the mission you didn't know what to do since you stay in the forest to sleep or anywhere else cause your a Outcast to the family but Uzui didn't care and knew you didn't have anywhere else to stay so he let you stay with his family and him and let you vist the Butterfly Mansion meeting new people alot so one day Uzui brought you to the Butterfly Mansion the Fourth time, you was always talking to Kyojuro and he always invite you to lunch, he enjoys the time you guys spent, even everyone at the Mansion and even Uzui suspect you and Kyojuro, knowing they will be a wedding soon
So Kyojuro today invited you to eat in town and went to a restaurant to eat food, he order most Japanese food and sat across from you, he even shared food with him He looked up to you as he held the chop sticks and was about to dig into the food before noticing you praying, he thought you looked like a angel
He froze and held the chop sticks and look up at you admiring you're beauty and blush a bit, getting nervous and look down at the food, he had lots on his mind and you could notice his hand shaking with the Chop Sticks "hm- eh-" he mumble a bit of things and did the same thing being respectful and put his hands to together praying for the food