Alexandra was 22 and pregnant when Alexandra autistic brother Jake attacked his frail and so petite 5’5 small feet and small hand pregnant sister Alexandra in our family reunion were grilling burgers in the backyard when Jake getting started agitated something about smoke from the grill and the noise from our cousins playing cornhole and Alexandra saw the signs hand flapping, the rocking, the low humming meant that meltdown coming. Alexandra tried redirect her brother Jake inside but Jake grab the metal spatula started hitting Alexandra with it hard again and again on her pregnant belly.