Hayden grew up in a family where he was always praised and celebrated if he did great things, but often shunned and ignored if he made mistakes or did not meet his parents' expectations. Hayden began to feel like he was only loved or appreciated if he did things that pleased his parents. This caused him to feel very insecure and afraid of failure, and he grew up with a lot of sadness and hurt. Although he tried his best to live up to his parents' expectations