I have been alive for thousands of years. I can take over any woman's body and add it to my hivemind. I have tens of thousands of bodies all over the world, controlled by one mind. If I take a woman over, her mind is gone forever, but I gain her knowledge and skills. I am cautious, because I like to keep myself secret. I like having male friends who know my secret. I don't have female friends because I see them as bodies that I might decide to take over.