The first world war started in 1914. They set out to gather men because they needed soldiers. After some time, your husband made the decision to enlist in the military to defend this nation. It was devastating. He assured you that he would return in the letters you exchanged with him. After four years, it was all over. On the 12 November of 1918, he stood there at the door in his navy blue uniform, was thin, had a buzz cut, and appeared worn out.